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"Nothing on earth is so weak and yielding as water, but for breaking down the firm and strong it has no equal." Lao~Tsze

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

resolved



Happy New Year! Ok so it is new year's eve.... big deal.

This Christmas break was pretty bad. Just because I spent most of it stuck at home. I have been cleaning and getting Christmas put away. I like to get things done before I have to worry about going back to work. Mitch is off for the next few days- yippeee.

it is the time of year that we all make resolutions so I am actually going to be a bit insane here and write mine online.

First I am going to be a meaner mother. I often give in and let Jo get away with stuff cause she wears me down. Come on mom please please please. I need to make her do her chores, homework and be tough when it comes to her responsibilities. She is a pretty good kid, but like all kids needs guidance and I have not been all that great at limiting her video game time or lap top time. She is going to hate it- but oh well. Joelle and I are pretty good friends which is great, but she needs to also know that I am the mom and what I say goes. Not in a minute or later. I may be pulling the plug a lot.

Next i am going to take better care of me. This is not me saying I will lose 20 pounds or whatever. It is that I need to really take care of me. I have to go to the gym consistently and watch what I eat. I am going to do my best to limit my caffeine and drink more water. I also need to take care of my skin and all that stuff we start to worry about as we get older. I am going to try to deal with stress better and enjoy the little things. Do my best to keep organized and such.

Another thing is my book. I have yet to re-start it. I have a bit of guilt as I should have been working on it while I was snowed it, but I am going to get on it and keep it going. Mainly I think I need to do a bit more research about the historical stuff I want to use in it.

So there you have it. Now I am going to go yell at Joelle and go to the gym- LOL. Kidding.

Tonight we are going to Mike and Kerry's. That is if Micth can move. He hurt his back carrying groceries out to the car- something about a case of beer and three bags in one hand while he was looking for his keys.

I hope everyone has a safe and happy New Year's.

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Oh my head...

OK I have a huge headache. I am not sure when it started, but now I know why I do not coach soccer. Today Mitch and I coached soccer. Jo's team played in a little indoor tournament- for fun. We didn't have the full team but we only need about 8. We had 10 players and they did a great job. Their first game was at 9:50 , their last game started at 3:15. They played four 20 minute games. They lost two and won one. They made it to the quarter finals where they also lost, but they played really well. They do not usually play indoor so they did well. They also played against three top level premier teams and that was tough. They managed Ok, but a lot of it was mental. It was fun though.

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Ghosts of Christmas



First I will start by saying I finally changed the music on my blog again. These are a few of my favorite holiday tunes. I hope you enjoy them- i know jackie and Megan will like it better than my Obama songs! So Merry Christmas to you.

We got move snow overnight. It is a good thing I got my shopping done yesterday. Now i can get prepping for tomorrow. I am making potatoes and banana cream pie and all that jazz- I got a ham from costco so we are pretty much set. We have cable and I was going to DVR It's a Wonderful Life tonight, but now I think we can just watch it. I don't think Joelle has ever seen it which is poor parenting on my part.

Mitch is working today- he was supposed to be off. I almost waited for today to do the shopping so he could drive the truck- good thing I didn't. The Outlander handles pretty well in the snow so I went for it.

I know it is the time of year that is hard for all of us. i know this year will be especially hard for Jackie as Megan is not home. I think the last time we has Christmas together was 1997. So that makes it over ten years. I have some great Christmas memories. Surprisingly it is not of awesome presents or getting that cool Lego set I wanted. It is of us all together doing things. I have great memories of Joel. He was so great around this time of year- I remember him pulling me around on my sled and shoveling the driveway into a big pile so I could dig my forts. I remember what a big production it was to make tapes for Grandma. I remember the year Jeleen was in Brazil and we had that flocked tree. Dad dressing as santa and shoveling off the roof. Falling asleep in the living room in front of the fireplace and that funky shag carpet that mom even had a rake for! When Jackie was driving and we were rounding the corner from reserve st to hiberta and the car started spinning cookies. DId we tell mom about that or not? The great programs at Hawthorne when Mr Rolshoven (spelling?) would dress as Santa and throw candy canes at everyone. My solo I sang and my mouse costume- pajamas with the feet. Walking to school and the snow- the year we watched the school burn from our window. All that crazy Christmas candy mom made- almond bark, peanut brittle, bourbon balls and the snacks Christmas Eve and the huge Christmas dinner. Getting an orange in my stocking every year because that was something really special for mom. The first Christmases with Tom and Pete- was that when Tom threw up in Jackie's mouth, down her shirt and in her bra? Always being warned to not stick my tongue on the light post or anything else. Going to recess - it was an ordeal as we would all put on our snowpants and gear to go out an play in the softball field which was flooded and covered with ice. The smell of snowpants drying and picking snowballs off my pant cuffs. Mitze running around in snow deeper than she was tall and coming in the house with the same snowballs stuck to her belly. These are the things I remember this time of year. I still feel like I grew up in Missoula rather than Vancouver- which is funny if you think about it.

Mitch is at work today- he was supposed to be off but he had to go in. This time of year is always busy for him and he gets stressed out. I try to not give him a hard time as I know that he can't do anything about it and me getting upset only makes it worse. He doesn't know when he will get home tonight. We won't be going to his parents house. I know he feels really awful about that, but again he can't change the circumstances or the roads. Mitch's mom said it is the first time she hasn't had her boys on Christmas Eve- pretty amazing when you think Mitch is going to be 40 this year. It would be so nice if we all lived close enough to do that, but as it is we are all still so close- with email and phones and all that. We do our best. I know when Michael has soccer and how he is doing and the same with Jeleen's boys, and Joel's family. We all keep in touch and I know we all wish we could get together more. Mitch will be working a 12 hour sort today so he might be home by 11 pm tonight- which means he'll be home some time after we watch It's a Wonderful Life. I need to be thankful that he will be home. There are so many families with people overseas in Iraq and kid's that won't have another Christmas with their fathers, mother's whose sons will never have another Christmas with them, wives with no one coming home. I am pretty much stuck at home because of the weather, but I have a home that is warm, and there are presents under the tree. We'll have our Christmas dinner tomorrow and that will be nice. At least being stuck slows me down enough to think about things rather than just running around trying to do everything. So with Mitch gone and me stuck it makes me appreciate all that I do have and all that we are able to do with Joelle. That is what the memories really are anyways.

On a side note I have lost a couple of pounds (yay me). I think it is because I am home and not on an eaing schedule- I just grab something when I am hungry- I also have to make stuff to eat and I am basically lazy (not as bad as the cats) so it really cuts down on what I eat. I made more of those pretzel things and even the turtle things mom told me about- I used almonds though and they are really good.

So Merry Christmas All- I am sure we'll all talk on the phone soon. Mom- say argh to Dad for me when he has his eye patch on! I know it is clear but still..... does it make him look like Johnny Depp at all??? *Wink*

Cabin fever





So we have about 8 inches of snow on the ground- maybe more. We are supposed to get more tonight. I actually ventured out today- first time since Saturday. I had to get groceries so I had what I need to make Christmas dinner. Mitch has been working everyday. He has been working a lot as they are short staffed. They have not collected our garbage this week and the buses and everything is limited. We might not even be able to go to Joby and Arlys's tomorrow night. Not a whole lot going on. Joelle and I started building a snow fort and I have been bringing in fire wood everyday. Brewster is loving it as she is in the house a lot. I have been noticing how incredibly lazy the cats are. I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas.

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Go Play in the Snow


Well--- we had a soccer game today. It was interesting and the girls seemed to have fun. Do they even do this in Michigan or are we nuts? They close the schools and all that , but soccer stops for no reason.

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Odd week


This week has been weird- very weird. For starters it has been cold and snowing off and on. It was freezing Monday, but the roads were OK so we had school. It was awful. It was below freezing and the heaters did not work. I froze all day. Then I could not warm up and I felt awful so I stayed home- did not play soccer and went to bed early. Tuesday i did not feel very well and ended up leaving work early- I felt like I was going to throw up. Wednesday I still felt bad so I stayed home- schools were open, but the let out two hours early. Today i felt fine and the weather seemed better- about freezing. It was snowing a bit this morning and the weather report was that it would cool off. They closed the schools. I did not hear this until I had already drove into work- the roads were fine. on the way home it was really snowing. Now it is about 1:00 and the temp has risen and everything melted- the roads are fine. I am pretty sure I will have school tomorrow- unless it snows and freezes again- which they say will happen but they have not gotten one thing right this week so who knows. I am a bit sleepy so the extra day home is probably a good thing. We had trouble with our heat system. The condensation tube froze and the heat shut down. It was about 50 degrees inside Wed morning. The repair guy came out and fixed it- wrapped the tube so it would not freeze again. No charge- because it should have been done that way when it was installed. I have been cleaning things a bit- going through the cupboards and shredding stuff I can't just throw away. I have had some nice fires in the fireplace. Mitch is working a lot and going to the gym- I am proud of him. I have not been to the gym this week- I just feel rundown.

Joelle had a couple soccer games last weekend. I was so proud of her. She played really well and has earned a new position. She got really aggressive and headed the ball three times in one game! That is a pretty big step up from flinching. She was also a captain for the game and got a lot of playing time. (is was about 30 degrees when she was playing). The team might have a scrimmage this weekend- should be interesting. Joelle loves to play soccer in the snow.... crazy kid.

Well I am going to get some Christmas cards done now.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008




What a week..... oh wait it is only Tuesday! Yikes.

I have been to the gym everyday since seeing the facebook stuff and I have lost two pounds- this is fully dressed and on the scale at the gym so I am hopeful. I went last night after my soccer game- we won I scored. :) I have been doing weights and cardio and tonight I did yoga for an hour and then cardio. The yoga class was interesting. I need to plant my tree a little better. It is much harder than it looks. So the class starts with everyone doing three long ohmmm chants. It took everything I had to not laugh. it was good though- very relaxing and I am going to try to do it twice a week.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Facebook...

So I had said I have been on facebook. People post photos on facebook and this has really motivated me. Maybe it was the old friend who has a couple kids and looks incredible, maybe it was the old boyfriend who apparently did a fireman's calendar. The point is there are a lot of people I went to school with that look really fabulous. I know no one will post the photo of themselves that makes them look short,f at, bald and old... but still. Dustin called the other day wanting to know if we had any photos of him from a couple years ago when he was thinner that he could put on his facebook page. I guess I could do something like that. I would rather go to the reunion looking---- healthy and happy. I am both.... but think I would be healthier and happier 20-30lbs smaller. So now I will be hitting it that much harder- I think I will look at these people on facebook everyday to keep my motivation up. I am also cutting back the calories and hopefully I can accomplish something. It is not like I don't know how, and Mitch is totally on board which should make it easier this time around.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Yawns.... I am yawning. I am also very sore. My calves, thighs and butt are sore. I guess it could have something to do with yesterday. I went to the gym on Sunday- I had not been since Wednesday when I went to yoga with Kerry. Yesterday I went to the gym and worked out while Joelle did her training. Then I played soccer at 8:20 and the next game did not have enough players and the next game did not have enough players--- so three games and the gym and now I am sore- duh. I scored a goal in each game. Anyway I do not feel much like blogging but it has been awhile so I thought I would blog---

Sunday, November 23, 2008

So I joined facebook and there are all these people from High school. I guess we are all talking cause it has been 20 years. Some of the people are ones I have wondered about but some of them are ones I didn't know too well or talk to too much. It is weird. I get friend requests from people I barely know but how do you hit the reject button?

So our neighbor girl was assaulted coming home from school. Apparently some girls on her bus were bullying her and then got off at her stop and beat her up. They had the bullying stuff on video- weeks of it. I guess these two other girls are foster kids and our neighbors are not filing charges or anything and get this these girls still ride the bus with her. i guess they were looking for someone to pick on and Tegan next door has pink and black hair and is a little different. She is a nice kid, and Joelle likes her, but they do not have a whole lot in common. I am glad we decided to keep Jo at OLL. All I can say is I do not care how sorry I would feel for the other kids- I would be pressing charges. I can't believe they are still on the bus- let alone still at the school. yes feel sorry for them, but I think they got away with it and that does not send the right message.

Sunday, November 16, 2008

weak end

This weekend was a nice one. First the weather was nice and that is always good. On Friday we didn't do much. We ate left overs and rented movies. On saturday I cleaned a bit and Mitch worked in the yard and watched OSU.I also went to meadows.
Today Joelle went with friends to the UP soccer game. UP is once again in the college playoffs. It was round two today. They beat Texas 2-0. It was on cable and OMG! Joelle was on tv. There was a shot of the crowd and there she was. She was on quite a bit actually. I went to the gym and that was nice. Mitch also went to the gym.
Tonight Joby and Arlys brought over dinner for my birthday. It was yummy. We had turkey, potatoes, stuffing, salad and veggies.To top it all off we had german chocolate cake. It was really nice of them to bring it over since Mitch works on Sundays.
I made a big pot of chicken noodle soup today. It turned out pretty good. We will be eating it tomorrow night. My game is at 7:30.

I have really been enjoying the gym. I like to go for about two hours. It is great to do time on the eliptical and the climber and then do weights. After that I go to the locker room and sit in the steam room and then the sauna- it is so relaxing. Then I take a nice hot shower. It makes it super easy to fall asleep and I feel really good when I am done. I also get email updates from the gym on my fitlinx account which keeps track of my workouts and gives me points that are worth rewards at the club- free lunch, free dinner and that kind of thing. I have a locker and towel service so it is really convenient.

Monday, November 10, 2008

who would have thought...



So last night while I was at the gym and grocery shopping Joelle and Mitch went to a hockey game. Joelle is now a hockey fan. Jo's friend Sam called earlier and invited her to the game and when Sam and her dad got to our house to pick her up Sam's dad invited Mitch- who of course went! They had a good time. Jo was not exactly thrilled to have him along, but I guess it was OK once he bought her cotton candy. lol. What are to odds of catching a puck at a hockey game? Pretty low is my guess, well Joelle came home with a puck. She was super excited and had a great time.

Joelle has a lot of friends. It is really amazing. I was always one to have a few close friends, but Joelle has friends - tons of friends. There are at least 10 sixth graders at OLL who are her friends some a closer than others, but it would not surprise me if she asked to have any of them over or if any of them called or invited her to do something. Then there is the soccer team- she is friends with the entire team! She would invite any of them over and vice versa. Then there are girls in other classes and some that do not go to school with her or play soccer. (she still writes to her friend Emma from preschool). So now since she is older there are limits as to how many people are invited to parties and Joelle is getting all kinds of invites. Then it is keep it quiet because I could not invite everyone on the team or in the class and I do not want to hurt any feelings. Jo is a pretty good kid and she has always been nice to everyone- she never went through the stuff I see the little girls doing- you know I am not going to be your friend anymore or anything like that. I hope it continues through middle school as those are tough years, but so far so good. I really think being involved in sports and having a lot to do all the time really helps with that. She has been on a team from early on and I think that helps. I hope she continues down the path she is on.

Sunday, November 9, 2008


Things really have been busy but going well over all. We've been playing soccer and going to the gym and all that stuff. Mitch beat me in racketball on Friday night. Tonight I just did cardio, swam a few laps. sat in the spa and then did my favorite- sauna and steam room. It was great. I went to safeway and actually saw lefsa in the deli- wow eh? I almost bought some. Then I camer home and looked it up online- go here if you want to stroll down memory lane and read Ole and Lena jokes... yuk yuk yuk

When Ole went to watch the Olympics, he saw a man, carrying a long pole. Ole walked up to him and asked, "Excuse me, but are you a pole-vaulter?" The man looked surprised and answered, "No, I'm a Swede, but how did you know my name was Walter?"

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

What a day!








So it is real. Barack Obama will be our next president. I was so happy this morning when I saw the cover of the newspaper.
I went to school with a spring in my step and hope for the future. One of my boys came skipping in smiling ( Megan knows which boy- the one she thought was adorable) He immediately asked me if I had heard that Obama won. I laughed and said no I had not heard that. Then he laughed and said I know you did! It was cute. So half the class was excited and half was disappointed. I have not voiced any opinion either way. They do not know who I voted for- only that I am happy it is over. And so it happened that before the bell even rang I had students in tears. One of the kids had said that Obama is a muslim and that muslims kill people. another said that Obama wants to kill babies and a girl told a boy whose father was a marine that his dad kills people. So rather than being able to highlight the historic moment of having the first African American president and talking about how anyone in America could become president I had to focus on the need for understanding and tolerance. Once everyone was calmed down we went on with our school day. After school I talked with a few of the parents about what their kids had said. The principal offered to come and talk to my class, but we decided it would be better to have Father Michael come. He will be in my room next Friday talking about tolerance and other faiths. Kids are the future and usually I am surprised by their insight and kindness, but today was a rough one for me. To come to work with such hope for the future and then to have my students saying such hurtful things to each other was hard. Although we have come a long way, we still have work do to and it will not be easy. Already people are praying that Obama does in fact become president and that he is not assassinated. There have already been death threats and in Portland there was a cardboard cut out of Obama hanging from a tree on a college campus. I hope that we can live up to the promise of the future, that we can end the divisions and come together as Barack said in his speech last night that we are more than red or blue states, that we are the United States and yes we can. We have no other choice.


The above photos are;

The alleyway in which Barack Obama spent his first night in NYC. He later washed up with a homeless man at a hydrant. The alley will surely become a historic site with a plaque stating Barack Obama slept here.

The crowd to see Obama in Chicago

A political button available in Texas.

Surely our country has come a long way..... but there still is work to do.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

A new day!





i am not going to say it was a landslide I don't think I have to. I can't really voice how happy I am. I believe things will get better. I was watching the returns tonight at the gym and I am so happy. The last eight years have been hard- first with Gore winning and then with the Kerry troubles in Ohio. Somehow I don't know if it is real just yet. I am uncertain about how happy I can be I am halfway worried that I will wake up in the morning to hear that Mcain won. It is almost too good to be true.... so pinch me. Oh and enjoy the music. ;)

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Well it has been about a week since my last blog and things have been busy. For starters we had the slumber party- or should I say party as there was little slumber involved. WOW. I have no idea that 11-12 yr old girls were so loud. Saturday was the Halloween Carnival and that was fun as always. Jo had a game on Sunday and she had the best shot I had seen this season. It was beautiful and hard and going straight to the goal too high and too far from the keeper. It was great. Unfortunately they were playing in 22 mph winds and at the last minute the ball curved and went out of the goal. It was awful. The team still won 2-1 but still it would have been nice to get that goal. Any other day and it would have been a goal. So she was super tired and so was I and we took a mental health day. Not to mention the fact that I had to get my hormones and UPS was supposed to deliver it and they would not leave them at the house without a signature. So my meds came and I signed for them. I also got the pool all closed up for winter so it was a good day. My team lost last night , but I think we will do better as we have a couple of new players who are pretty good. I went to the gym today- wow did that feel good. Anyway not much else going on here.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008





So what kind of kid goes shopping with her b-day money and gets her mom a gift? Sheesh

We have a super busy week.. I have book club and conferences and we are having a sleepover for Jo's b-day on Friday. Lots to do but I wanted to put up a quick post. I will do more when I can.

Saturday, October 11, 2008


This will just be a quick blog as I have a lot to do. What all do I have to do? Well clean the house for one. That is the problem with having pets. I think I am at the point where I may just shave all the cats or get one like they had in the Austin Powers movies. LOL So much hair everywhere. I also need to clip their claws and all that good stuff. So the house is a mess and I have laundry to do and all that great exciting weekend stuff. Mitch went grocery shopping yesterday which was awesome. I will still have to go to costco for our apples. I know crazy but they are so good and so easy to pack in a lunch. I will also go to albertsons and see if I can find that diet cranberry sprite we like- it is just nothing but tastee.
It was so great to have Megan here. My class absolutely loved her and so did Joelle's class. It was too funny about the secretary at school thinking it was horrible that I left Megan home alone. Also I guess one of the soccer dads last week thought she was a little young to be wearing make-up. LOL Sorry Megan but you do look young. Trust me at some point in life you will think it is great. I almost to a little happy dance when I get carded. Sometimes I am the only one in the group to get carded it rocks. It was good to have Megan and Joelle spend sometime together. I really like hanging out and going to the movies. Wish the weather had been better. It is great now fifties without a cloud in the sky! I am also glad that Jo and Megan came to my game- even though my team got killed and I was actually sprawled out on the turf quite a few times. Our final score was 9-1 ( but I did score the one goal!) My legs are bruised up and my left knee is still a little tender. Soccer is such a contact sport. I was getting fouled all over the place and tripped and everything and when I had finally had enough I just decided to push my way through- much to Joelle and Megans delight- they were my cheering section. LOL Joelle had a good game today. The reffing was very bad- no fouls on the other team at all but quite a few on our girls including two on Jo! What??? So the end was a 0-0 tie as the only goal of the game was called offsides. ;( Joelle had a couple of shots and one of them we thought was sure to get in, but alas.... no goals.

Anyway I better get moving as I have a lot to do. We are still working on the pool and it looks like we will totally tackle it next weekend.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

What Really Matters

This week we have been busy. The usual business in addition to a few more things. Since I am back i the full swing of things the week has consisted of all kinds of things. Joelle and I really enjoyed doing the Walk for the Cure. It was amazing. There were over 45,000 people walking. It was quite a big deal and felt incredible to be involved in something so large. The last time I walked in something like that was a protest march for the first gulf war- yeah the political stuff goes back that far- farther actually. So it was really something. I have since worn my race t-shirt and gotten comments on it. Really makes you feel like part of something bigger. On Monday we had school and I had my game. We lost and I came home in a little pain. On Tuesday Jo had practice and I went to the gym for a couple of hours. On Wednesday Jo had personal training and I worked out then did all the laundry and cooked dinner. Joelle has gotten much better with her trainer- her time in running the mile was over two minutes faster than it was last year! She had been over ten minutes before and walked part of it but now is around 8 min. I also got her user name and password for powerschool so I can look at her grades. Today she had practice and i went to best buy to get my bad hard drive - they could not recover anything. :(. I hope mom has the copy of the book I emailed her so she can send it back to me. I was able to recover my itunes, but not any photos. I also went to the petstore to restock supplies so now all the animals have food.
Tomorrow we are meeting Joby and Arlys for lunch. It is Joby's birthday. We had dinner with them last week and it was very nice. I know we are super lucky to have them. I couldn't imagine what it would be like if they were not the way they are. I think I married the best in terms of in-laws (sorry Jackie, but it is my feeling). They are always there for us no matter what- they have sat through school programs and more sporting events than I can even mention- they have even been at swim meets which can be quite an ordeal. They are super supportive and I guess it makes it not quite so bad that mom and dad moved. Mitch does things with Joby, but I also like doing things with Arlys- shopping and that type of thing. I have though about how much I would like to get a sewing machine and have her teach me to sew, but i just don't know when/if there would ever be time. I would also love for Joelle to learn and Arlys is really good at that stuff. I wish we saw them more and did more together- but life gets in the way. There is always something that needs to be done. Like tomorrow we have noon dismissal and I am going to lunch but I have to be back at school for a meeting at 1 pm. SO I won't have that much time, but I guess at least we will see them. The thing is we should make the time to see them and the other important. Anyway I have to cut this short as I have to help Joelle with her current event for school- it is so much fun to have her read the news and stuff. Last week she found an article about the french commandos attacking some pirates and today it looks like she is going to write about new pigs born at the Oregon zoo.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Life

So here I am complaining about my hard drive and all that and focusing on the little things in life and then something happens that makes you think about things from a different point of view. Two years ago Joelle was playing on a different soccer team. There was a girl named Jamie on her team who was very good and just a great kid. Last week Joelle's current team played Jamie's team. We were pleased that the heartbreakers won. On Monday I found out that Jamie's father died in a fatal accident the morning of the game. I can't think of the right words but I can only think of how small minded I was complaining about my hard drive crashing.
I haven't blogged much lately because I have been busy. I had book club at my house and we had a great discussion. Joelle and I are going to be taking part in the walk for the cure on Sunday. seems like breast cancer is touching more and more people I know. Jane and then Trish at school and now my former principal Shirley.

I really need to get over my small mindedness and stop worrying about little things that seem big and start enjoying life and appreciating what I have more/

Sunday, September 14, 2008




It was a very bad week. My mac decided to go grey screen of death! It was horrid. I turned it on and got the grey screen with a flashing question mark. I had nothing. So I brought it to school and our tech person couldn't do anything. So I brought it to best buy. I was told I had a head crash and that it was lost completely. (yeah but I watch CSI). So they have now sent my hard drive to tennessee. They are trying to recover what they can -the starting cost is $700 and it goes up from there. This does not include the new harddrive, the external harddrive or any of that I bought. So I have learned the whole back it up lesson. I have nothing left- no music, no pictures, no book, no financial information. Our trip to Florida and every photo taken after that. I am glad i copied the slideshow for everyone- now everyone has a copy but me. Nice hu?

Joelle's team their first in season game. It was a close one with the final score 1-0.

Today we drained the pool. ug. We are going to level out the ground, add some sand under it and then level off the side rails. We then will fill it up and winterize it. I have book club at our house on Tuesday. I had everyone read Forever Amber- should be a good discussion. Any way I am off to bed, but did want to blog as I haven't in awhile.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Champion for whales and women?

I am hopeful that this will be my last post about politics. Jackie I love, we disagree on many political issues. You hold your beliefs close as do I and continued talk about them will not accomplish a whole lot. I would rather talk about the other things we love- our families, each other and the many things I feel have brought us closer as sisters. I do ask that as Megan's mom you read this and think about your vote may effect her future. I promise that I won't say anymore about it. I love you guys!!


Sarah Palin and the Environment

Governor Sarah Palin has an extreme anti-conservation record on issues ranging from global warming, energy and drilling to wildlife and habitat protection.

Aerial hunting of wolves and bears
Governor Palin is an active promoter of Alaska's aerial hunting program whereby wolves and bears are shot from the air or chased by airplanes to the point of exhaustion before the pilot lands the plane and a gunner shoots the animals point blank.

Palin offered a $150 bounty for wolves to entice hunters to kill more wolves in certain parts of the state, with hunters having to present a wolf's foreleg to collect the bounty.

She actively opposed a ballot measure campaign seeking to end the aerial hunting of wolves by private hunters and approved a $400,000 state-funded campaign aimed at swaying people's votes on the issue.

She also introduced legislation to make it easier to kill wolves and bears and which would have also removed the aerial hunting initiative from the ballot and block the ability of citizens to vote on the issue.

The Board of Game, which she appoints, has approved the killing of black bear sows with cubs as part of the program and expanded the aerial control programs.

The media is currently looking into reports that state officials implementing one of the aerial wolf killing programs illegally killed five-week old wolf pups just outside their dens.

Global Warming
As recently as August 2008, Governor Palin questioned whether man-made fossil fuel emissions are responsible for global warming, defying worldwide scientific consensus (Newsmax 8/29/08). And her drill-drill-drill approach to energy issues will do nothing to ease the causes of global warming, promote the use of clean, renewable energy sources, or break our addiction to foreign oil.

Endangered Species
Palin has repeatedly opposed the listing of endangered animals under the Endangered Species List despite overwhelming scientific evidence that such listings are warranted.

Polar Bear
The U.S. Geological Survey predicts that loss of summer sea ice - crucial habitat for polar bears - could lead to the demise of two-thirds of the world's polar bears by mid-century, including all of Alaska's polar bears. The Bush administration has proposed listing the polar bears as threatened under the ESA to help protect polar bear habitat from threats such as oil and gas development.

Governor Palin has actively opposed the listing of the polar bear despite the fact that Alaska's top marine mammal biologists agreed with the federal scientists who believed the bear should be listed. She wrote the Secretary of Interior urging him not to list the bear on the ground it might hurt the state's oil- and gas-dependent economy. After the bear was listed, she recently filed suit seeking to overturn the listing of polar bears.

Beluga Whales
Alaska's Cook Inlet beluga whales are a unique group of white whales whose numbers have dramatically declined in the past two decades due to pressures ranging from pollution to increased ship traffic. Governor Palin opposes the listing of the Cook Inlet beluga whales, citing the listing as a threat to oil and gas development, despite their genetic uniqueness and the fact that their numbers have decreased from 1,300 in the 1980s to about 350 today.

Drilling
Palin is a strong supporter of drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge, a vital wilderness area. It is home to hundreds of thousands of caribou who use the refuge as a calving ground, more than one million migratory birds, and countless other wildlife. It's the most important onshore denning habitat for female polar bears. Senator McCain himself has repeatedly voted to protect this pristine wilderness area. Palin is also a supporter of drilling in Bristol Bay and other offshore sites despite the risks to sensitive marine wildlife in the area, including the endangered polar bear and Beluga whale.

Clean Water and Pebble Mine
Governor Palin actively campaigned against a state ballot measure this summer aimed at protecting Alaska's Bristol Bay. The mining industry seeks to develop a gold and copper mine in the area that would pollute the Bay's headwaters and threaten the spawning grounds for the largest remaining wild salmon run. The initiative would have prevented large-scale mining operations from dumping waste materials into salmon watersheds.



Palin: wrong woman, wrong message
Sarah Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Hillary Clinton. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.
By Gloria Steinem
September 4, 2008
Here's the good news: Women have become so politically powerful that even the anti-feminist right wing -- the folks with a headlock on the Republican Party -- are trying to appease the gender gap with a first-ever female vice president. We owe this to women -- and to many men too -- who have picketed, gone on hunger strikes or confronted violence at the polls so women can vote. We owe it to Shirley Chisholm, who first took the "white-male-only" sign off the White House, and to Hillary Rodham Clinton, who hung in there through ridicule and misogyny to win 18 million votes.

But here is even better news: It won't work. This isn't the first time a boss has picked an unqualified woman just because she agrees with him and opposes everything most other women want and need. Feminism has never been about getting a job for one woman. It's about making life more fair for women everywhere. It's not about a piece of the existing pie; there are too many of us for that. It's about baking a new pie.


Selecting Sarah Palin, who was touted all summer by Rush Limbaugh, is no way to attract most women, including die-hard Clinton supporters. Palin shares nothing but a chromosome with Clinton. Her down-home, divisive and deceptive speech did nothing to cosmeticize a Republican convention that has more than twice as many male delegates as female, a presidential candidate who is owned and operated by the right wing and a platform that opposes pretty much everything Clinton's candidacy stood for -- and that Barack Obama's still does. To vote in protest for McCain/Palin would be like saying, "Somebody stole my shoes, so I'll amputate my legs."

This is not to beat up on Palin. I defend her right to be wrong, even on issues that matter most to me. I regret that people say she can't do the job because she has children in need of care, especially if they wouldn't say the same about a father. I get no pleasure from imagining her in the spotlight on national and foreign policy issues about which she has zero background, with one month to learn to compete with Sen. Joe Biden's 37 years' experience.

Palin has been honest about what she doesn't know. When asked last month about the vice presidency, she said, "I still can't answer that question until someone answers for me: What is it exactly that the VP does every day?" When asked about Iraq, she said, "I haven't really focused much on the war in Iraq."

She was elected governor largely because the incumbent was unpopular, and she's won over Alaskans mostly by using unprecedented oil wealth to give a $1,200 rebate to every resident. Now she is being praised by McCain's campaign as a tax cutter, despite the fact that Alaska has no state income or sales tax. Perhaps McCain has opposed affirmative action for so long that he doesn't know it's about inviting more people to meet standards, not lowering them. Or perhaps McCain is following the Bush administration habit, as in the Justice Department, of putting a job candidate's views on "God, guns and gays" ahead of competence. The difference is that McCain is filling a job one 72-year-old heartbeat away from the presidency.

So let's be clear: The culprit is John McCain. He may have chosen Palin out of change-envy, or a belief that women can't tell the difference between form and content, but the main motive was to please right-wing ideologues; the same ones who nixed anyone who is now or ever has been a supporter of reproductive freedom. If that were not the case, McCain could have chosen a woman who knows what a vice president does and who has thought about Iraq; someone like Texas Sen. Kay Bailey Hutchison or Sen. Olympia Snowe of Maine. McCain could have taken a baby step away from right-wing patriarchs who determine his actions, right down to opposing the Violence Against Women Act.

Palin's value to those patriarchs is clear: She opposes just about every issue that women support by a majority or plurality. She believes that creationism should be taught in public schools but disbelieves global warming; she opposes gun control but supports government control of women's wombs; she opposes stem cell research but approves "abstinence-only" programs, which increase unwanted births, sexually transmitted diseases and abortions; she tried to use taxpayers' millions for a state program to shoot wolves from the air but didn't spend enough money to fix a state school system with the lowest high-school graduation rate in the nation; she runs with a candidate who opposes the Fair Pay Act but supports $500 million in subsidies for a natural gas pipeline across Alaska; she supports drilling in the Arctic National Wildlife Reserve, though even McCain has opted for the lesser evil of offshore drilling. She is Phyllis Schlafly, only younger.

I don't doubt her sincerity. As a lifetime member of the National Rifle Assn., she doesn't just support killing animals from helicopters, she does it herself. She doesn't just talk about increasing the use of fossil fuels but puts a coal-burning power plant in her own small town. She doesn't just echo McCain's pledge to criminalize abortion by overturning Roe vs. Wade, she says that if one of her daughters were impregnated by rape or incest, she should bear the child. She not only opposes reproductive freedom as a human right but implies that it dictates abortion, without saying that it also protects the right to have a child.

So far, the major new McCain supporter that Palin has attracted is James Dobson of Focus on the Family. Of course, for Dobson, "women are merely waiting for their husbands to assume leadership," so he may be voting for Palin's husband.

Being a hope-a-holic, however, I can see two long-term bipartisan gains from this contest.

Republicans may learn they can't appeal to right-wing patriarchs and most women at the same time. A loss in November could cause the centrist majority of Republicans to take back their party, which was the first to support the Equal Rights Amendment and should be the last to want to invite government into the wombs of women.

And American women, who suffer more because of having two full-time jobs than from any other single injustice, finally have support on a national stage from male leaders who know that women can't be equal outside the home until men are equal in it. Barack Obama and Joe Biden are campaigning on their belief that men should be, can be and want to be at home for their children.

This could be huge.

Gloria Steinem is an author, feminist organizer and co-founder of the Women's Media Center. She supported Hillary Clinton and is now supporting Barack Obama.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

I watched as mush as possible of the democratic convention this week. All I can say is that I will be voting Obama. I had a few reservations, but just don't think we can do another four years the way things have been. With the world the way it is and the economy they way it is Obama gives people what they need- Hope. It is amazing that he had almost as many people watching as the superbowl. That says a lot.

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Tonight Joelle went and stayed at Emily's and Mitch and I went to dinner and a movie. We saw Tropic Thunder and it was hilarious. The funniest movie I have seen in a long time. I hope Joelle is doing OK- she has a wart on her foot and went in yesterday to have it frozen. It didn't seem to do much as she had calluses over the wart. Now she is wearing duct tape over it and that is supposed to help. It seemed a bit better today so hopefully tomorrow will be ever better.
I went into work today and cleaned- I had so much crap in my classroom- teacher guides for books I don't use and that type of thing. I am trying to clean as much as I can and go through my files. I think I will be moving next year so as this year goes along I want to throw things out.
Tomorrow Mitch has his fantasy football draft- I know you can't see me but I am rolling my eyes. I don't get the whole 'fantasy sport' thing, but he likes it and has fun. To me it is just weird. Joelle and I have to work at a soccer tournament- she isn't playing, it is a rec tournament for her club. I am soooooo excited to do that- yes eyes rolling again.
I am looking forward to seeing mom and dad soon. Hope everyone has a good time and that you all get to see whales- in the water!!!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

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Women take the gold!

So the US women win the gold metal soccer match and primetime olympic coverage will be what--- Table tennis? I wish they would rebroadcast it.
Today will be spent running errands. I need to get groceries. My body is still sore from Monday night-- what the heck isn't it Thursday now?
I worked today again and almost have everything done. That is as far as set up goes- I still have to lesson plan. My body is really sore- especially my butt which is a good sign right?

We watched the movie Funny Games tonight. Don't bother with it- was pretty bad. Hope everyone is doing well since no one else ever blogs......

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Ouch



I played soccer last night- two games. First it was completely fun. Our regular goalie was out so I played goalie in the first game. (we lost) then I stayed and played with another team- we lost. In the middle of the game I was tackled- pretty hard. I had the ball and was running full speed when someone's foot tripped me. I am sure it was unintentional but still I went down- hard. I slid on my knee and kinda rolled. I heard a few of the other players gasp. It was me though so I quickly said I was fine and hopped up. I was fine- I kept playing. Then at halftime we took a break and I was standing against the wall by our bench- thinking how gross it was that there was blood on the wall- ooops it was MY blood. Of course we had no band aids by the bench so I squirted some of my water on it and called it good. Then I finished playing. So I get home- with blood down my leg. I actually got a little pity and Mitch told me to clean it up right away "because you don't know what kind of bacteria is in the turf". Then today I was looking at tiff's blog and there is a picture of her knee with a turf burn. She is playing soccer now too.

I went to work for a while yesterday and tried to get as much done in my classroom as possible- arranging the furniture and doing the bulletin boards. I want to get as much done as I can before we officially go back next week. I have going in and being there for like 12-13 hours everyday for a week. I would like to have next week for lesson planning and that type of thing. Joelle has a job. She is going t be in my classroom next week and has offered to babysit for the other teachers- I remember how it was looking for someone to watch Joelle while I was sitting in those meetings before school started.

We were also quite excited yesterday to see a hummingbird! I got a feeder a while back, and had noticed that the liquid was going down, but thought maybe it was evaporating as we hadn't seen anything- well we have a hummingbird. Joelle thought it was cool and we got photographic evidence for Mitch who thought we were nuts for putting up the feeder.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Joelle was supposed to golf today but due to thunder and lightning we stayed home. She wasn't too upset as she hasn't been enjoying golf camp much.
We have been quite busy. I have cleaned the house and washed the walls down. Most of the wall that is, but I am calling it done. We really enjoyed Phantom on Thursday. Joelle says it is now her favorite musical which puts it above Wicked. That says a lot cause she loved Wicked. Mitch and I were discussing the fact that when she is old enough and wants to date- it will be hard for a guy to impress her.
We had Tom and Suzy and the girls over on Friday night. It was good to see them and the kids had fun. We made carne asada and it turned out real good. I also did cowboy beans and homemade potato salad.
Saturday night Joelle stayed over at Dani and Sarah's and Mitch went to see his friend Scott's band. Mitch and Dustin wanted me to come, but it was like 100 degrees and I was looking forward to being home all alone. It is rare that I have the house to myself. So they went and I relaxed. It was nice.
On Sunday we went over to Mike and Kerry's.They have a Traeger pellet grill so Mitch was pretty excited to see that! The meat was really good and Kerry said that last week they had smoked a turkey. Mitch now has 'smoker envy'.
I think Joelle and I are going to head in to school today. It is raining so it won't be hot at OLL and it will be a good time to start getting things set up.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Yesterday was spent running around and getting things done. I took Joelle to the uniform store and bought her new uniforms for middle school. We went to costco and picked up things for the classroom and then to kohls where we go Joelle a new swimsuit. Joelle went to her friend Hailey's birthday party and Mitch and I went to dinner- black angus. It was nice- just the two of us. Tonight we are going out again- to Jake's Famous Crayfish and then to see Phantom of the Opera. Tomorrow we are having a few friend over for an end of summer BBQ. It is supposed to be near 100 tomorrow.
Today I am going to try to get the walls cleaned in the bathroom and hallway- maybe the living room too, but that is doubtful. I did my bedroom the other day and it is nice and clean now. I am also going to make potato salad. :)

Sunday, August 10, 2008


It was another soccer weekend here. I am exhausted. It is like I played or something. Joelle's team had three games yesterday. they lost one and won two. Just so you know how close the games were her team scored two goals and gave up one. Today they had the championship game against the team they lost to yesterday. The cheetahs. It was a great game. 1-1 after regulation time and then two 7 1/2 overtimes. Still 1-1. It went into PKs. Hb made two of theirs and the cheetahs made 3. What a game though. It was the hardest game Joelle's team has played. The photo is of Joelle making one of the two Pks for her team.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

I read this in yesterday's paper.

Dear Amy: I'm responding to the letter from "Maryland Mom," who was worried because her 8-year-old son saw his gym teacher naked in a public changing room. Most of your response was right on the mark.

I could not disagree more, however, with your suggestion that the child's gym teacher in the changing room "should have been more circumspect." To imply to the child that it was OK for the teacher to be naked in front of everyone except the child would have turned a perfectly normal, mundane situation into one that was weird, uncomfortable and confusing.

The most confusing and damaging influence on children's feelings about their bodies is the wildly inconsistent treatment of the topic by adults. Adults need to exorcise their own demons, get comfortable with their own values and understand the values of others before teaching their children.

—Chris in Narberth, Pa.

Dear Chris: I agree with you that parents shape their children's perceptions.

As I said to "Maryland Mom," if she and her husband don't want their son to see naked men, then they shouldn't go to a public changing room at a state park.

All the same, I do believe that teachers have a special charge to be aware of how their students perceive them when they are out in the world.

I'm thinking of how traumatized I was by running into my teacher, Miss Quinn, wearing shorts in the summer. For some reason, I never knew she had knees.


Ok first I had to respond to this. Are you kidding me? I don't think I have to say anymore. How did this Amy person get a job giving advice?

Second I am now on page 21 of my book. It is pretty rough but coming along and I have found I hate writing dialog. I now have a file of characters where I keep their names and descriptions. Another one with basic plot line and then the basic part where I am actually writing.

Not much else going on here.

Saturday, August 2, 2008


So we had three games.... the first was a tie. Heartbreakers scored early and it was answered fast and then neither team could score again. This morning HB was up 1-0 at the half and then in the last ten minutes the girls lost it. After the other team scored it was all mental and they ended up losing 1-2. The team was just not playing together well and they looked tired. The last game, was the best I had ever seen Joelle play. She started and then subbed out for about one minute before she was back in. She played mid and forward and it was crazy. Although she did not score a goal- she was amazing. Imagine- Joelle being offsides! What??? After the game there were a few parents going wow- Joelle is faster than I thought. She played great and wasn't even tired. Beating the defense and making some great passes. Her coaches were stunned and told her to keep up the speed training. HB won 3-0. We didn't make the finals and HB took third in the tournament. We have another tournament next week but it is in Vancouver.
jackie thanks for calling- I would call you back but I didn't get the voice message until at 8 pm. TTYL

Monday, July 28, 2008






Well the trip was incredible and I am just going to let the photos to the talking.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Today was busy. I started off by doing some laundry- towels. Then I tidied up the house and took Brewster to the groomers. I went to winco, costco and kmart getting all the thinsg we needed. Joelle's camera needed a memory card and that type of thing. Now we have packed and planned our meals and it looks like we'll be ready. I am charging all our batteries. I am looking forward to our trip. I was glad to hear the ferry tickets are two way. I most likely won't blog until we get back- then I will have photos!!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Ok this is too funny. I kind of caved in to Joelle- but not really. You see her friends that she wanted to have over are away at camps- so I told her she could invite them over, Bummer though cause they can't come. We'll have to do it when we get back.
So we mad a bit of a chart for the fridge. It basically lists Joelle's jobs- catbox, bedroom cleaned and such and then lists free time choices. She gets one hour of computer tie a day, but she can only do free time things once her chores are done. I tried to write down some free time things she doesn't usually think of- practice golf in the yard with her practice balls, shoot baskets, waveboard. It should get her motivated to try and do more besides swimming, jumping on the trampoline and watching tv.

Mitch got home from work freakishly early yesterday. I was cleaning the bathroom cupboards under the sink and Joelle was doing her chores- it was like 3:30. We took advantage of that and headed off to see The Dark Knight. It was good, but since I had seen some of the other Batmans I knew where it was going. I guess these are prequels or something.The acting was really good and the effects were too. I think some of the messages went over Jo's head. She didn't think the joker was scary at all- just some guy with makeup on. She didn't get the whole psychological thing.

Today we are cleaning up a bit, doing some laundry and I am going to get a few things at the store to bring with us. We are planning on eating lunches out and dinner and breakfast at the house. I am getting kinda anxious.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

I am such a mean mom. Joelle has been wanting to have a friend over this week, but I have said no. This is mainly because I want to get ready for the trip and I don't have a whole lot of food in the house- mainly trying to eat the fruit and veggies that we have. I know it won't go bad over the weekend, but it doesn't make sense to just store food here while we are gone. I also don't want to deal with a mess or anything like that. It is not that bad when she has friends over, but it just adds to what I have to do. Maybe I am just a lazy mom. I do need to go to the grocery to get a few things to bring to the island as I don't want to buy groceries there.
I am a little bit sore from all that I did yesterday. I plan on having Joelle go golf tonight from 4-4:50. There is a class she can go to with the golf pro at meadows. It is a good thing we have meadows or I wouldn't know what to do this summer LOL. Anyway I have laundry to do and all that stuff- so exciting.

Monday, July 21, 2008

tired

I did do the whole gym thing today- twice for a total of 80 minutes of cardio. Next I went and played soccer- I stayed for two games and had two goals. By the middle of the second games my calves were both cramping- not just one. It came on all of a sudden every step was pain so I had to sub out and chug a bunch of h2o- took care of most of the pain. I took a hot bath tonight and I feel better. I guess three hours at the gym and two soccer games might be a bit much for the day. I hope I can move tomorrow. I have to get stuff done for the trip and go to the gym.

Oh I saw this article today about pedicures--- too odd.
We had a pretty good non-soccer weekend. :) Friday we did the gym and Jo did her SAQ. She is doing well and picking things up. We went to the gym again on Sat- but this time for golf. We hit a bucket of balls and then did some chipping and putting. Mitch has been cleaning up the yard- trimming and the like. He fixed the wood pile which had fallen over and found a opossum. (live) It was huge. So he shot it and buried it in the back yard about 3 feet down. Not that I have anything against animals, it is just when they are around and could possibly kill one of our cats or get in a fight with Brewster that they have to go.
On Sunday Joelle and I went to the movies. We saw Prince Caspien and Speed Racer. Yeah a double feature at the Kiggins. Jo was impressed with how old it was- and cold. They have strong AC. Anyway they have done the whole dolby thing and it was $4 each. So that was kinda a cool thing to do on a Sunday. When we got home Mitch was pretty sweaty and said he had been at the neighbors tearing a wall out of their house. They are changing the three bedrooms into two. Would be like us taking out the wall between Joelle's room and our guest room. Might be something to consider once we see what it looks like.
Jo had golf again today and I worked out- 45 min on the eliptical. I also did the sauna and steam room. I love the steam room. I have lost like 5 pounds- yippee! Ok sarcasm. Mitch has lost near 40 and I have lost like not quite ten. Oh well at least it is something. Jo has SAQ later today so I will workout again and then I have a game at 5;50. Not mush else going on. I have to call and talk to Mitch's parents about next weekend- the meal situation. I think we will be cooking breakfast and dinner. :)

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

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When you watch the movie, first scroll down and pause the music so you can han hear the song. It is great. I saw this earlier and had to add it hear.

I blogged earlier today- see below, but wanted to add a little. I did get the windows done and then washed and waxed the car and went to the gym. Jo and I biked there again. While I was there I saw a mom from school who I know pretty well but not that well. She is incredible though. This is so inspiring. In March she was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had surgery and is doing quite well. She was running on the treadmill and looked fabulous. She was completely bald from the chemo- but still just looked great. So I guess when I don't feel like going to the gym I will think of her. What a brave woman. I am not sure if I would be able to handle things the way she is.

Brewster is starting to socialize a little more. After only going to the dog park twice I can tell she has loosened up quite a bit and is now open to mutual sniffing. Not romping and playing yet, but I think she'll get there. I also have notice there aren't any landminds at the dog park. Maybe people taking their dogs there are more responsible. There are plenty of garbage cans and lots of extra bags kept at the park. She really crashes after going there. We were running late because someone forgot to put their hair in a ponytail and needed a water bottle. And no it wasn't me and Brewster doesn't care much about her hair. :) So in the rush I forgot the camera.
 I also updated my ipod and cleaned yesterday. One of Mitch's friends gave him a dvd with a bunch of music on it. A lot of it I already had, but there were a few things I didn't. 
I think I spent about an hour scrubbing the tub. It gets a film on it and now it is all gone. Today I am going to get a new sprinkler for the back yard and wash the windows. I just use the windex stuff so it is not that much of a hassle.
Tomorrow Jo is having her cousins Hailey and Morgan over to play and swim and such. She doesn't get to see them that often. They live out in the gorge, but Shawn works in Vancouver so he is dropping them off and picking them up. It will be good for Joelle to see them. I know they plan on swimming and playing the wii. 

Monday, July 14, 2008


What a day...... so it started early for me for the summer. I had to get up before 8 am!
Joelle had golf camp from 9-11.She is doing it at CGM on Monday morning for the next seven weeks.  It is a pretty good deal since we are members- it is $110. She seemed to enjoy it.  While she golfed I did 45 min on eliptical and then did the sauna and steam room.  I also showered and all that. We have locker now at the club so it makes it super easy. Next we went to target where we got Joelle a golf glove and I got us some new chairs for soccer season. They are about $50 but they were on sale at target for $35. I figured if I waited they would sell out- I have seen people with them at tournaments and Tom and Suzie have them and love them. Anyway Jo's hand was red after golf so that is why she got the glove. I like seeing her on gold days. She has to wear golf dress code so she is not running around in her basketball gear.  So after that we went home for lunch and did some laundry. Then we headed back to CGM at 4:00 for Jo's SAQ- so while she did that I did 45 min on the eliptical. Then we showered and got ready and met the O'Leary's for dinner at Stanfords. They went with us to Florida last year and at great. Shannon is a year older than Joelle and has been drag racing for years. Talk about an expensive sport. Joelle grows out of her cleats- Shannon grows out of her car. LOL It was great to see them. They are leaving on Thur to go to Denver for an annual drag race. After dinner I was home for a little bit and then headed out to my game at 10. We lost by one goal. It was really physical. I am pretty tired but need to mellow out before bed.  I didn't write today. I will tomorrow though. I am going to go to the gym early in the day then write a little and then take Joelle to soccer and Brewster to the dog park again. This time I will bring the camera. 

Sunday, July 13, 2008

I am burnt- the back of my legs and my tummy which means it is hard to get comfy.
I didn't do much today- hooked up mac #2 to the net so now Joelle won't be nagging me to use my laptop when I am on it. I didn't get a new one- it is the one from my classroom.

I didn't write today. I have been reading and that type of thing. I probably won't write more until Tues. I have some notes though. It is pretty bare bones and I will have to add quite a bit- aiming for near 300 pages.   

I went to Winco today and did the ironing and then we watched Stand by Me. That was just a great movie.  

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Not much news to report today. It is hot- in the 90's. We spent sometime in the pool and it was nice. Mitch went to the gym and I wrote a little more. I now have about 11 pages. It is pretty bare bones and I will need to fill in a lot more. I am going to head to the gym myself and the have dinner and maybe type a bit more later. It takes a really long time to get a page and dialogue is pretty tough. Not much to say. Mom you really need to blog more.

Friday, July 11, 2008


It is Friday night! Yippee!
So today was a clean the carpet day. Not too exciting, but well worth it.  Mitch was off and he worked in the yard. Joelle was busy cleaning out her drawers so all in all it was a nice day. Not exciting, but not stressful.
Yesterday Jo had her dentist appointment. I had made a mistake about the day so it was yesterday instead of Wed. She had both fillings done with no problems. Maybe because I told her when it was done she could get a new webkin.  Wed. afternoon she had Dani and Sara over and they played rockband. It was funny! Sarah was singing and the band name came up and Dani told her it would be easier for her cause it was a girl singing. "See it says Molly Hachet". LOL. Needless to say the girls were a little surprised. 
Well the cat is out of the bag. I told Jackie that I finally have started writing that book that I have had knocking around in my head.  Jackie told mom so now I might as well fess up. It is a book for kids- not a kids book with glossy pictures but a book with chapters. It's a historical fiction novel. It seems to me that a lot of authors for kids started as teachers so why not me?For me the idea is exciting and I have written a total of seven pages. I guess by actually telling people I am doing it that I will keep at it. So I sent the first few pages to mom and we'll see what she thinks of it. I don't want to say too much more about it here, but I am full of ideas and feel like I just need to jot it all down when it comes to me. I am going to get a small notebook to have with me. I tend to be thinking about it a lot and not always when I have the laptop. I mean one minute I am doing dishes and then I have dialog going in my head. It's kinda weird.

Good news! We found a house and I made reservations for the whale watch tour! Mitch's parents are going with us so it will be a lot of fun.

Funny news- I took Brewster to the dog park. We went while Joelle had practice. Funniest thing I had ever seen. Brew is very people centered and didn't know what to make of all the dogs running around. She mainly stayed with me and walked the path. She did finally decide it was OK to drink from the doggie fountain. It was funny to see a line of off-leash dogs waiting to get a drink and not one was pushing or growling. Pretty cool. I think she had fun. We'll see when we go next time. 

Wednesday, July 9, 2008


I got my weeding done. (for the most part) I weeded most of the back yard. Along the back fence we have this area where Mitch took out the old hedge. It was like the bushy thing with yellow flowers. Anyway just keeps coming back. It is not like something I could pull out. So i cut it super sort- like an inch left and then sprayed it with round-up. It was hot yesterday so after that I floated in the pool with Jo.  She had spent the day cleaning out her closet. She now has  a garbage bag of old school uniforms. Since she will be in middle school she won't wear the plaid anymore- now it will be khaki (or as Joelle say ky ah key)  That is strictly for Megan to laugh at.  So I am going to have to find some skorts for her. At least I do not have to but them at Dennis like I did for her like the plaid. The khaki one are about $20 less than the plaid- even at Dennis. She had practice yesterday and I went to walmart. I had somethings to pick-up.  I wanted to find a nice outdoor clock for the back patio so when you are in the pool you know what time it is. It is not like I swim with a watch on.  Today Jo is going to the dentist to get the filling she needs. Hopefully it will be uneventful. :)

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Yesterday was exercise day. Jo and I went to the mall where we got some back packs. Each is big enough for clothes and everything we need to go to the gym. Mine will also be great for hiking or anything else. Jo will also use hers for school in the fall. She got some gym shoes- to wear only at the gym. We biked to meadows and I did my workout while she did hers. Meadows has a junior strength training class M,W,F from 4-5. So she did that. There were no other kids so it was just Joelle and a trainer for the hour.  It was tailored to Joelle so it was SAQ (speed agility and quickness).Best thing is it is included in our membership so there is no charge. While she did that I did my workout. Afterward we hit the outdoor pool and the grabbed dinner with Mitch at the club. He offered to throw the bike in the back of the truck, but we rode home instead. It only takes 15-20 min to get to the gym on bike. So we got home a little after 7:30. I changed and went to my game. I was a little late, but subbed onto the field and scored a goal within one minute of being on the field. We ended up tying 4-4. 
Today I am going to work in the yard. The back has some weeds in the pool/trampoline area.  It is looking good though. I re-painted our old plastic patio set last week so it looks lots better. I also did the front fountain.  Mitch's mom and dad got it for him last year and he was cleaning an touched it with the power washer which took off a little of the paint. It looks good as new now with the paint.  Ok I am off now to get some work done.
As for my skinny bitch book I am now disappointed. It is basically about going Vegan. I don't think I can give up dairy and animal products completely. There are some things I can do and once I am out of soda I am not going to buy more. 

Monday, July 7, 2008



When I was in Boise I went shopping with Joelle and she got some plaid Bermuda shorts! wow. I know you all know that back in the day I wore plaid bermuda shorts- like all the time- with polo shirts of course. So once she got her's and a polo shirt I was thinking to myself now if only topsiders were around life would be perfect. I guess thinking back to 1984-87 had me longing for my own pair of bermudas and some topsiders. So on the 4th I went to Macys and found them! I was so gosh darn excited. I wore them to the BBQ and was asked by more than one person where I found them. Maybe they will get holey a rot off my feet like my old ones... LOL So I got this outfit but my shirt has sleeves and I wore it with my new topsiders. I even called mom to tell her I found them. I am getting so old that the things I grew up with are coming back. Wait till I find an espirt bag.....  Ok I don't know if anyone besides Tiff will understand this one.

So yesterday we saw Get Smart- too funny. It was just the girls. Jo, Dani, Sarah, Suzie and I. It was really good. I haven't laughed that hard in along time.  

My WWJE diet is going ok. Jackie do you think you could blog daily- you know just what you ate? I got myself a book to help keep me motivated. It is called Skinny Bitch and it is great. Such awesome advice as get off your fat ass and quit eating crap.  Such great little tidbits as Soda is liquid satan. Anyway I am hoping it combined with the WWJE the book will give me the verbal slap upside the head to keep me on track. If I could get a recording of Jackie saying Jen I didn't eat a brownie I would be in heaven.... lol  Today I am going to tiddy up a little and the Jo and I are going to bike to the gym. My game is at 8:20.... go underdogs.

Sunday, July 6, 2008



It has been so long since I have blogged. It is not that I have been busy so much as I have been lazy. Boise was great and it was so fun to see everyone. It was great for everyone to see each other and for some family members to get to know Mitch better. 
Joelle's team took second place in the tournament. She played a lot- which surprised me since she had missed practice. She even started in the Sunday games. In the top photo you can see Joelle getting ready to stop the ball. Sh e has been working really hard with balls in the air. In the final championship game her team played against the timbers. It was her friend Sarah's team and also the team Hans coaches now. HB lost but it was a good game and a good thing they lost. Otherwise they would have had huge egos going into our other tournaments. last week Joelle had Sarah and Dani sleep over. The girls had a blast swimming in the pool and playing our new video game. Wii rockband. They got pretty good at it. I had to sing a couple of the songs for them- they kept failing on Creep by Radiohead and then I had to give Roxanne a try. I did get 100% on Roxanne- shocking. For the fourth of July we went to a BBQ at some friend and Jo stayed over at Dani and Sarah's. Mitch helped Tom tear out some carpet in their living room. Their 16 yr old cat has kidney failure. It is a pretty sad situation. Yesterday we saw the movie wanted. It was like a combination of Fight Club, Matrix and Office Space. Kinda odd. but Mitch and I liked it. Them we went to Tom and Suzy's for dinner and picked up Joelle.  Today I am doing laundry and catching up on stuff. Not much going on. Starting tomorrow Jo and I will be doing the gym thing- she is going to start with a trainer for speed classes.  Not much else going on. I hope everyone is doing well. 

We are trying to plan a trip up to the san juans. It looks like the weekend of the 25th would be best for us- Mitch has vacation.  So Megs would that work? I know it is super close to your birthday. I was thinking just the four day weekend. Jo has three tournaments in August, so we will be pretty busy when that hits. 

Words of Wisdom

"Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans"
~John Lennon
"Accept the things which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings together, but do so with all your heart"
~ Marcus Aurelius
"We make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give"
~Winston Churchill
"There is always more misery among the lower classes than there is humanity in the higher"
~Victor Hugo Les Miserables
"Life's greatest happiness is to be convinced we are loved"
~Victor Hugo Les Miserables
"Nothing discernable to the eye of the spirit is more brilliant or obscure than man; nothing is more formidible,complex, mysterious, infinite. There is a prospect greater than the sea,and it is the sky; there is a prospect greater than the sky, and it is the human soul." 
~Victor Hugo Les Miserables
"If you want to be respected by others the great thing is to respect yourself. Only by that, only by self-respect will you compel others to respect you."
~Dostoevsky
"Wanting to be a person you are not is a waste of the person you are"
~Kurt Cobain
"The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven."
~John Milton
"A great flame follows a little spark."
~Dante Alighieri
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
~Dr.Seuss
"If the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail."
~Maslow
"Look at what your idea of success would be. The more that you take in external motivators, the more it reduces your ultimate satisfaction because it doesn't come from inside."
~Chris Messina
"One of the advantages of being disorderly is that one is constantly making exciting discoveries."
~A.A. Milne (this one is for Mom)